Posted: 07/20/2010 11:23:46 AM EDT
NORTH ADAMS - It was an emotional roller coaster ride this week for Ali Fedotowsky, as "The Bachelorette" moved into the high stakes world of romance in Tahiti, where she found out that another of her suitors wasn't being completely honest with her.
For weeks

we've had to endure the insipid, namby-pamby ranting of Frank, who would whine about not being able to spend more time with his golden-haired vixen or cry about having to watch the love of his life date other men. In the end, Frank walked away from Ali to return to his ex-girlfriend Nicole, whom he suddenly realized he loved.
Seems ol' lover boy Frank may have taken notes from Justin "Rated-R" Rego's playbook and actually carried out his scheme. You remember Justin, the entertainment wrestler from Toronto, who was bounced from the show after it was revealed he had left not one, but two girlfriends behind in Canada? His original plan had been to make it to the final three and then bow out gracefully, claiming that feelings for his ex had been rekindled.
It was all too familiar Monday night, as Frank took a detour to Chicago, where he reunited with his recent ex-girlfriend Nicole, in an attempt at closure. You see, Frank, whom I've always felt uneasy about (in the first week of the show I called him a potential stalker, and Entertainment Weekly recently called him creepy and obsessed), was supposedly so "into" Ali, but he was going to sleep at night thinking of Nicole.
"Ali and I have a connection
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that very few people have," he said. "It's fun. It's romantic. It's everything I want in a relationship, and I can see us getting married one day. I came here to fall in love with Ali, yet there's something in me that's holding me back. As I fall in love with Ali, I realize I may still be in love with Nicole. It's killing me that I have feelings for two girls."
So instead of heading to Tahiti, Frank flew off to Nicole in Chicago, where the two had an awkward heart-to-heart in which he confessed that his feelings for her had been brewing despite his affections for Ali.
If I were Nicole, I would have slapped his face and shoved him out the door. To think he had to spend a couple months dating another woman, whom he traveled around the world with, to realize that he loved her? But Nicole seems perfect for Frank. She has to be, since she told him she wasn't complete without him and it was time to come home.
Congratulations. You two seem perfect together.
While all of this was going on, Ali was happily enjoying her dates in Tahiti with former North Adams SteepleCat Roberto Martinez and Chris L., a landscaper from Dennis, Mass. During her date with Roberto, the couple flew to a nearby island where they swam in a heart-shaped lagoon and shared such long passionate kisses that I felt like a voyeur on their honeymoon. I was made uncomfortable by the intimacy we shared with the couple.
It was at dinner that Roberto expressed his feelings to the Williamstown native, sweat dripping from his brow ( I couldn't tell if he was nervous or too hot) as he admitted he had fallen for her. Ali presented him a key to a "fantasy suite," where the couple could spend the entire night together instead of in separate quarters. While this sentiment is romantic in some respects, I'd rather not let my imagination run wild with speculation of what happened after the lights and the cameras were turned off.
The next day Ali was in high spirits, as she set off on a yacht with Chris. The two swam in the luxurious crystal-clear water, collected pearls from oysters on the sand and shared an intimate dinner on a secluded island before making their way to the fantasy suite.
Now, it's my theory that each of the three remaining men represented some fantasy to Ali. Frank represented the man she can have fun with and who would follow her to distant locations as she follows her dreams. Roberto is the fun-loving partner and equal, whom she can build a life with if she chooses, while Chris is the older protector, who offers a dream life of security and family.
But which one is the right choice?
Ali had thought it was Frank, a man who promised he'd walk to the ends of the earth for her. He was the guy who would give up his job to follow her like a puppy dog. But when Frank arrived in Tahiti and said those horrible, horrible words, "We need to talk," Ali's world began to spiral downward. She had appeared all prepared to give her heart to the man who could flatter her with his obsession and love her with undying passion.
Frank didn't make his bad news any easier to take, as he systematically said how wonderful Ali was, how in love he was with her- and how he was returning to Nicole.
"I was crazy about you right from the beginning," he told Ali. "Every time I saw you, my feelings grew stronger and stronger. But, there was something holding me back, and basically it was unresolved feelings for an ex-girlfriend."
Frank isn't good at breaking up, because the man kept going on and on:
"You're perfect in every way. You make me feel better about myself. I love being with you," he gushed. "When I watched you drive away [from my family's home], I was thinking 'I could marry that girl.' I wanted to get closure and give everything I could give to you.
But then, he added, "The second I saw her [Nicole], all the old feelings kind of came rushing back."
Ali kicked Frank to the curb, but like all women, she later broke down and questioned if the problem was her, not the idiot-boy.
"This always happens to me," she said to host Chris Harrison. "I was so looking forward to falling in love with Frank today and everything coming together. I just don't understand. If there was another girl, why didn't he tell me? I just feel like he's the biggest jerk I've ever known. I've been saying for a while that Frank is everything I've been looking for in a guy. I was so sure he was going to meet my mom and dad. I just can't help thinking there is something wrong with me."
With Frank gone, there were only two men left to travel on to the island of Bora Bora with Ali to meet her family. But Ali insisted on having a rose ceremony, so Roberto and Chris wouldn't feel like their advancement was the direct result of Frank's departure.
"I need to make sure they accept the rose," she said.
So it's down to Roberto and Chris, but you'll have to wait two weeks until the series finale. Next week, it's "Men Tell All," a revealing episode where they talk openly about each other.